"When you forsake your Warrior and King, you are forsaking money, intimacy, sex, and success as a father."

I’ve seen this in my groups and outside of them—men doing incredible work to heal their past traumas and end dysfunctional patterns. But what happens to many men is that, somewhere along the way, they unknowingly step away from their Warrior and King energy.

They think this is the way to break free from the unhealthy masculine energy that’s been running rampant for so long.

The Cost of Forsaking Your Warrior and King Energy

Here’s what happens: these men set out to create, provide, and make money. They want to provide for their wives, lovers, and children, but somewhere in that journey, they shy away from the very things that lead to success—like getting great at sales and marketing. They don’t get crystal clear on what they offer or who they’re offering it to. They feel stuck.

And then the frustration kicks in. They watch others succeed and wonder, “Why the fuck isn’t this working for me?” Some men even start to question their faith, thinking...

“Does God hate me? Because I’m kinda hating Him right now.”

What follows is a downward spiral—numbing out, distracting themselves with mindset videos, manifesting practices, and taking endless courses, hoping things will just work out. But nothing changes. And worse, their partners and children are dragged through a miserable existence alongside them.

The Impact on Intimacy and Trust

It’s not just the financial strain that’s affecting these men; it’s their relationships too. When a man is not in his Warrior or King energy, his spouse or partner doesn’t feel safe enough to trust him. And when she doesn’t trust him, she cannot fully open up to him. That means not just emotionally, but physically as well.

This isn’t about being crude—it’s reality. When a woman doesn’t feel safe with her partner, her body won’t want to engage in intimacy. Her very body wisdom knows it cannot participate in an act of procreation with someone whose energy doesn’t feel solid and reliable.

It’s not that she doesn’t want to have sex. It’s that she doesn’t feel safe enough to surrender and open up. If she can’t trust you, sex becomes off the table.

How to Turn It All Around

So how do you turn this around? How do you reclaim your Warrior and King energy and never look back, wondering where the next dollar will come from or why your relationship feels distant?

The answer lies in clarity and environment. You need the right space where you can get crystal clear on your purpose, your offer, your message, and who you are here to serve. You need a space that allows you to step fully into your empowered masculine energy, where your Warrior and King energy can thrive.

But you can’t do this alone. Support is vital—a guide to help you, step by step, through this process. Surrounding yourself with the right tribe, the right people, who have already walked this path, will make all the difference in your success.

Stepping Into Your Power

When you reclaim your Warrior and King, you stop second-guessing yourself. You step into a place of power, confidence, and clarity. Suddenly, you know who you are, what you offer, and how to serve your family and the world in a way that aligns with your true self.

That’s when things change. Your wife or partner begins to trust you again. She feels safe enough to open up emotionally, mentally, and physically. Your children look up to you as a solid foundation. And financially, you begin to create success that doesn’t just come from doing more, but from being aligned with your purpose.

Don’t Keep Spinning Your Wheels

If you find yourself spinning your wheels, wondering why things aren’t working out for you, or why your relationships feel disconnected, it’s time to look at where you’ve forsaken your Warrior and King energy.

Ask yourself:

Are you clear on your purpose?

Are you clear on what you’re offering the world and who you’re offering it to?

If not, it’s time to change that.

Reclaim your Warrior and King energy. Step into your power and purpose.

And with the right support, the right tribe, and a clear vision, you’ll find that success—in money, intimacy, and fatherhood—is not just possible, but inevitable.