"We don't get in life what we deserve… we get exactly what we are sub-consciously committed to."

How to Elevate Your Life: Mastering the Ups and Downs to Reach New Heights

I learned a long time ago that the goal of life isn’t to shield yourself from the ups and downs. The truth is, no matter how hard you work, how much you dream, or how well you plan, life's waves will come. Everyone is going to face highs and lows. If you’re holding onto a fantasy of “happily ever after,” filled only with rainbows and butterflies, it’s time to release that.

The key is how quickly and easily you move through the downs, integrate their lessons, and recalibrate to receive more and more goodness in every aspect of your life. Because, yes, life can get better and better—and that’s not just wishful thinking. It’s a reality I live every day and help my clients achieve.

Upgrade How Good You Can Handle Life Being

Instead of working hard to avoid challenges, what if you prepared yourself for whatever life throws your way, while also continuously upgrading how good you can stand life being? One of the biggest misconceptions is that the goal is to avoid hardship. But what truly serves you is learning how to receive both the ups and the downs with grace.

Your resistance to the less pleasant parts of life is what keeps you stuck in them. As the saying goes, "What you resist, persists." But when you can accept life’s challenges—without resistance—you’ll find they have gifts buried within them. And as you integrate those lessons, you recalibrate your nervous system to handle even more love, ease, joy, peace, and prosperity.

Rewiring Your Subconscious Commitments

What I do every day with my clients is help them create results they subconsciously couldn’t acclimate to before we started working together. Maybe they said they wanted more abundance, better relationships, or higher levels of success—but deep down, their subconscious mind wasn’t ready to accept that new reality. So, we dive in and do the work to rewire those patterns, raising their upper and lower limits in life.

Often, the results people say they don’t want are the ones they’ve been creating for far too long. But why? Because somewhere inside, they are subconsciously committed to those results. My job is to help uncover those hidden commitments and break through them, so they can step into a higher level of living.

Raising the Floor and the Ceiling

During our time together, I make sure my clients are always raising both the floor and the ceiling of their experiences. We celebrate the wins, fortify their foundation, and integrate each success as a new "upper limit." On the flip side, when they hit a low point, we use it as an opportunity to recalibrate the lower limit. The goal isn’t just to keep life from falling apart—it’s to ensure that, moving forward, their lowest point today is the lowest they’ll ever experience again.

The Power of Acclimating to More

Every time we get on a group call, whether you're in an amazing space or feeling down, we do three things:

• Celebrate it

• Fortify it

• Integrate it

If you’re feeling high, we celebrate and anchor that feeling, raising your thermostat for how much goodness you can handle. If you’re feeling low, we work on integrating the lessons and raising the floor of your experience. Life will always have its ups and downs, but the objective is to make both the highs and the lows progressively better and better.

My strong intention is that the lowest point in your life when you meet me is the lowest you’ll ever experience again. Together, we will continuously raise both your upper and lower limits, expanding your capacity for joy, love, ease, and prosperity. I don’t want you to just survive life—I want you to thrive.

So, how good can you stand life to be? How much are you willing to receive?

If this resonates with you, I invite you to join us in the FREE Wolf Pack Facebook group, where like-minded men come together to support each other in creating lives filled with passion and purpose. Whether it’s in the bedroom or the boardroom, we’re committed to raising each other up, creating results we’ve only dreamed of, and transforming our lives for the better.